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How to relieve stress Tagged With: cope with stress, How to avoid stress, how to manage stress, How to overcome stress

Are you strong enough to overcome stress?

July 20, 2016

In my previous blog post on the causes and consequences of stress I wrote that, if not dealt with effectively, prolonged periods of emotional and physical pressure could result in burnout. On the other hand, some individuals activate their resilience mechanisms and survive the turmoil unshaken, or even bounce back stronger. They learn how to overcome stress.

How is this all possible?

Understanding Resilience

At first, let’s define what does this concept actually mean. Being resilient equals to being capable of identifying distressing events and situations, and dealing with them effectively. One can “bounce back from tough times, or even to triumph in the face of adversity” claims Local Government Association of London.

Drawing on previous research neurologists Adriana Feder and her colleagues agree that resilience is our ability to respond positively to drawbacks and traumas in life. But their work also teaches us that the level of personal resilience is linked to the genetic composition and workings of our brain.

In fact, certain “neural circuits” are partially responsible for all the facets of resilience – our responses to uneasy situations, our use of positive emotions, our ability to be proud of our achievements, and even our capacity to draw on positive energy of encouraging companions, colleagues, and friends.

It is not only genes, but also the social environments that are influential in our capacity to be resilient, claim Lupien and his colleagues Nature Reviews Neuroscience. The support received from our primary carers and parents when growing up, positive school environments, even supportive local communities in the early years of life, all of these factors strongly impact on the “physiological and psychological mechanisms” that are activated when we are faced with stressful situations in adulthood. Therefore having a strong and supportive social network is largely influential in resilience levels.

But apart from seeking social interactions, or defaulting to our genetic predisposition, what else can we do to increase our ability to exhibit resilience and thus be effectively equipped to ‘cope with stress’?

How to Increase your Resilience Capacity

One of the Europe`s leading business psychology consultancies Nicholson McBride has been actively involved in improving organisational performance by offering people based solutions since 1980s. Being the experts they developed the Resilience Quotient Questionnaire that can help to identify your current behaviour and reactions to setbacks. Then to work on your capacity of resilience five strategies are being put forward. Based on a research overview of Dr Nicholson and Jane Clark by Local Government Association of London and Glynis Horning I would like to recommend that you take the following building blocks of resilience seriously:

1. Work on your optimism levels.

Attribution: Pixabay-geralt, CC0 Public Domain

Attribution: Pixabay-geralt, CC0 Public Domain

Drawing on positive psychology, feeling and believing that your day will turn out well, despite missing the train in the morning, and forgetting your wallet at home, can have a significant impact on the quality of your physical and mental wellbeing. It is also Dr.Seligman, the father of positive psychology, that cannot stress enough the need to build up resilience levels from young age by teaching our children optimistic thinking. 

2. Optimism however does not mean closing your eyes in front of problems or even dwelling on them.

Attribution: Pixabay-geralt,  CC0 Public Domain
Attribution: Pixabay-geralt, CC0 Public Domain

Instead anticipate them, identify them, and seek out solutions. Have strategies for addressing them, explore all the possibilities.

3. Take responsibility for your own actions. Resilient people have what is called an ‘internal locus of control’ – they see themselves as responsible for influencing actions, happenings, events around them, instead of ‘blaming others’. Don`t waste your time or energy on things you have no control over. Believe in yourself. Do not sink in self-doubt.

4. Be responsive to change. Reframe the way you see it. Look for challenges and opportunities for personal growth instead of obstacles and failures. Accept a little help along the way too, there is a lot that you can learn from others.

5. Learn to identify your own stress signals so you can learn how to avoid stress way before you burn out. Take the first steps of how to manage stress by looking after your body and mind.  

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Attribution: Pixabay-PIRO4D, CC0 Public Domain

 

In the search for the stress management techniques one can find endless recommendations on mindfulness exercises, yoga, relaxation. Go for walks in the fresh air, or have a hot bath at the end of the busy day. All of these are indeed effective means of how to cope with stress. I will leave you with one more suggestion.

Did you know that by pursuing your favourite hobbies, you can reach not only a better life, but a happier life? This is because by becoming immersed in your preferred occupation, you will get into the state of ‘flow’ coined by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. His research into happiness started with asking artists, and creative people what lead them to spend hours either dancing, painting, playing a musical instrument and so on. He found out that simply by entering the conscious state of ‘flow’ you will become completely captivated by the activity, especially if it`s to do with creativity. This is where you can find “genuine satisfaction”. Therefore, in accordance with his teaching, choose your favourite hobbies – and if you can day to day activities too – according to this principle, so that you can “forget yourself” and enjoy your life.


Ever wonder why you keep repeating the same behaviours?

July 20, 2016

How to relieve stress Tagged With: cope with stress, How to avoid stress, how to manage stress, How to overcome stress

How to relieve stress Tagged With: how to manage stress, natural stress relievers, stress recovery

How to Manage Stress by Having a Healthier Brain

July 5, 2016

In my previous blog posts I have introduced you to our core brain networks and their functioning (here) and emphasized how we can release our creativity genius when our mind wanders in order to reduce stress.

Neuroscientific research  has progressed greatly in its exploration of  the brain’s networks and brain health. In order to keep flourishing and enjoying happier and healthier lives at home and/or at work, we need to pay attention to the nourishment of our brain. Neurological diseases such as Parkinson’s or Alzheimer’s now affect over one billion people worldwide (World Health Organisation). Let’s have a look at what you can do to improve the health of your brain and aid stress recovery.


Eat More Fruit

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You don’t have to go far from your home to discover one of the most natural and accessible remedies to maintain a healthy brain. Summer fruit is becoming the centre of attention in brain health because of specific properties it contains to increase mental cognition.  In 2012, the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry devoted an entire issue to the benefits of various types of berries on our health.

Scientists from the American Institute of Nutrition emphasize the power of grape juice, walnuts, and berries as natural stress relievers, lowering how our bodies respond to stress as we get older, which in turn impacts positively on our thinking as well as our behaviour. Nutritional  researchers James A. Joseph, Barbara Shukitt-Hale and Lauren M.Willis advise that  the consumption of blueberries and grape juice increases “verbal memory performance” due to high levels of antioxidants contained in these fruit.

Karen Charlton and Katherine Kent from The Conversation also point out that stone fruit such as peaches, apricots, cherries and plums due to their high flavonoids content  can improve the executive functioning of our brain – the network of activity in the brain that is activated in concentrated focus and decision-making (blog post).

More comprehensive nutritional guidelines from the Australian government can be accessed here.


Physical Activity

The current generation of millennials is being brought up on smartphones, tablets and social media and thus, physical activity has slowly taken a second place to the computer. Even if you are not a millennial, with our innate drive to succeed and the increasing pace of our day to day lives, we all need to remember to take a break from the Internet and our digital devices to look after our brain. Regular physical activity is extremely beneficial for maintaining the health of the brain and mental well-being.

How so?

A simple workout increases the amount of oxygen that is pumped from your heart to your brain. It also stimulates the “bodily release” of hormones that are necessary “in aiding and providing a nourishing environment for the growth of brain cells”, explain researchers from Posit Science, specialists in brain training software.

Dr. John J. Ratey explains that when we engage in physical activity we activate the executive function of our brain,  enhancing our attention, memory and learning capabilities. In addition, Dr John J. Ratey highlights that participation in physical activity leads to increased  ability to manage our emotions, and thus our ability to lead healthier, happier and less stressful lives.

Whatever activity you choose, make sure it something that is enjoyable for you. The key is to not add further stress. If it has been a while since you have done any exercise and you have health issues or concerns, especially heart health, you should consult your doctor first.


Learn New Skills – Physical & Contemplative

Did you know that, in addition to physical exercise, you can further increase your brain’s cognitive function by learning a new skill such as learning to play a musical instrument, a second language or even simply reading a novel and reflecting?

Why these activities?

These types of activities involve different parts of the cerebellum. Christopher Bergland points out in Psychology Today that to increase connectivity in the brain and neurogenesis (the development of new neurons), you need to engage “both hemispheres of the cerebellum” which can only happen when you are “practising, exploring, and learning new things in the three-dimensions of the real world”.

You do not have to just learn new skills that require concentrated effort though. You can activate other powerful networks in the brain through learning activities that trigger mind-wandering and inspiration (the Default Mode Network (DMN)) in the brain, for instance, contemplation, self-reflection or reading a good book.

Dr Dan Siegel, Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine, highlights how the social circuitry within the DMN gets activated when we stop concentrating on a task and mindfully self-observe. This circuitry appears to be a part of the brain geared to problem-solving and self-regulation.

Learning to mindfully reflect appears to be not only healthy for your brain, but it may also help you gain new perspectives and loosens constraints of prior learning and memories that have set conditioned pathways in your brain.

Christopher Bergland describes how researchers found that being absorbed in a novel improves connectivity in the brain and brain function. He notes that “reading fiction was found to improve the reader’s ability to put themselves in another person’s shoes and flex the imagination in a way that is similar to the visualization an athlete would do while mentally rehearsing a motion in sports.”

With regards to learning languages, your genetic disposition  certainly plays a big part, however, there are a few tricks that you can employ to master any language too. Check out Tim Ferriss’ blog for a few pointers.

Learning a new skill can be both challenging and relaxing.  Take the time to try a  new hobby to increase your brain health and decrease your propensity for developing cognitive diseases later in life.


Connect

My final point relates to the power of our social networks. By maintaining social relationships you are not only contributing to the health of your body, but also  your brain. There is extensive research that shows that social relationships activate the default mode network and contribute  to an increased functioning of the brain’s ‘executive function’ (blog post). This results in an overall improvement in physical and mental wellbeing.

To understand more, here are two articles that review the importance of social connection for brain and physical health by John T.Cacioppo and Stephanie Cacioppo and Harvard Medical School.


Professional Tips

 To have a healthier brain and happier life, remember:

  • Eat Fruit to improve verbal cognition.
  • Do Physical Activity for its cognitive benefits – enhancing your attention, memory and learning capabilities, plus the emotional benefits – increasing your ability to manage your emotions.
  • Learn new skills that engage multiple parts of the brain and trigger mind-wandering to improve connectivity in the brain and brain function.
  • Connect with people to improve not just how you feel but your cognitive abilities.

The health of your brain is vital to every aspect of your life and wellbeing. By engaging in healthy eating habits, regular  physical activity, learning enjoyable new skills, and connecting with others, your brain will most certainly thank you, in return providing you with a more energetic, decisive and productive version of you.

 

July 5, 2016

How to relieve stress Tagged With: how to manage stress, natural stress relievers, stress recovery

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